3 Habits of Happy People
There is no universal recipe for happiness, unfortunately,
but there are certain things that can increase our chances to be happy and they
do not necessarily involve money.
Positive thinking counts enormously. You can train your mind
to see the full side of the glass just as you train your muscles in the gym.
People who tend to give in to despair, melancholy or pessimism should learn
from optimistic and happy people and even "steal" some of their healthy
habits:
1. Being grateful
- Happy people are always aware of the reasons that make them happy and they
show gratitude for the good and beautiful things in their lives.
2. Having healthy
social relationships - Happy people do not necessarily have a lot of
friends, but a couple of very good friends. There is no need to emphasize
friendship and confuse it with social obligations or needs. For the happy
people, what matters is the quality of the friendships, not the number of
friends. This aspect is good to be kept in mind, especially now, when most
people chase illusory friendships on social networks, based on tons of likes
and shares that actually mean nothing.
3. Being independent
and having hobbies - Happiness comes from us and we have to find it within ourselves
instead of expecting others to bring it to us. Our independence (financial and
emotional) makes us the masters of our own lives, so we have to do anything in
our power to reach it and keep it. Also, hobbies make us happy because they are
the things we like to do and which are often creative and full of motivation.
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